| Are you scared of losing your job? If you are, you probably wonder how to keep your job if you have missed too many days at work. And that can be a trap for you losing it. Being human we always think of the worst scenarios first and foremost. It’s how our brain works and how we survive: When we think about the worst possible outcome we unconsciously prepare ourselves to survive and find ways of what to do ‘before’ it comes true to be ‘ready’ in case it does come true. EVEN if the outcome we think is not the one we want. It’s the fear-survival trap! Working with people every day over the years, what I have found over and over is, how we compromise even with the worst in our lives, and how we can find a way around to survive. When your employer is unsympathetic because you have taken out too much time, because of suffering headaches and migraines, you might fall into that trap. He might have given you an ultimatum, lawful or not, so you are driven to find a way to survive by fighting the wrong fight: Get Unions involved who will fight your ‘case’ and possibly get your migraines logged as a disability. In the beginning, it may seem like the best option for survival…you might be rationalizing to yourself… ….just ought to keep the money coming in.. … anything has to happen, it can’t go on like this… …someone has to understand what we are going through if not your employer… …so let me get any help, even though it’s not ideal and doesn’t actually solve THE problem – the constant headaches and migraines. But I can tell you right now, that’s the absolute opposite to where you could be going to solve the actual ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM. WHY? Because if you don’t solve the very thing that is causing the work and employment problem, you will keep heading in the same direction as the worst scenarios in your life: Unemployment, disability, BUT still suffering migraines! Where will it lead to? You will be even more boxed in living a restrictive life where you always have to constantly explain to everyone the same old story: ‘I suffer migraines, that’s why I can’t… Is that really how you want to live your life? Think about it NOW, because ‘now’ is the only time that really exists. Thinking of the worst will get you to the worst! I know, it’s hard to picture that now. Especially when there are bills to be paid. And mouths to feed. Even so, it’s true. Battling a fight that isn’t solving the problem is battling the wrong enemy. One day you will be thinking back to where you took the bad turn. Fortunately, you don’t have to settle. You don’t have to put up with anything less than solving the problem that is causing the problem at work. And the way you do that is by getting really clear on three things… 1. WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE? ..when you are clear of what you want and what you don’t want for your life, ..when you are rock solid about your value in the world, ..when you know that you have to solve the root of the problem instead of compromising… And that clarity comes from knowing things like… The more clear you are about who you and how you want to live your life, the more easily you’ll find a way to resolve the migraines! Do you want to be able to work? Do you want to feel valued for what you can do? What matters in the world to you? Becoming a victim to a condition or your health? These questions and more are the foundation of EVERYTHING you do. Everything you are. It’s vital that you develop clear, unshakable answers to these questions about who you are. Then from that place of clarity and value… 2. HOW DO YOU WANT TO SHOW UP IN YOUR LIFE AND IN THIS WORLD? You get to be pain and migraine-free. You know how to and feel self-empowered. You have that choice and you decide. No one else chooses or decides how capable you are and logs you in as ‘disabled’ and incapable to work. No one or nothing is forcing you to settle with compromises. So, since that’s true, doesn’t it make sense to know exactly what you’re looking for in your life? Isn’t it important to find a permanent and sustainable solution to migraines? And doesn’t it make just as much sense to know what you absolutely will NOT tolerate in your life? This is much more than just pain and migraine relief. Think of it like this… You have found a solution that is sustainable and you finally understand why you have suffered migraines for decades… How would you be feeling? What are you able to do, now that YOU (not the migraines) get to chose how you spend your time? What would you do, knowing that you can live your life unrestricted and pain-free? How would you show up as an employee or mother, father, and friend? What makes you smile when you picture that in your mind? I bet you would… Have fun with your friends and family, feel grateful, respect your time, saw your value. And much more. In short, you need to create a vision of your ideal life lived and DO NOT SETTLE for anything less. Seriously. Turn away anything that doesn’t fit that vision! Part 3: And now we circle back around to where we started… 3. FIND A SUSTAINABLE AND PERMANENT SOLUTION TO RELIEF MIGRAINES. When you have found a pain-free solution to your migraines, it is far easier to be the person you want to be. Having cleared the migraines for good and permanently solved every single symptom AND knowing why you had them in the first place is life-changing. You go from desperation and compromising to choosing and energized. At this point, you’re probably thinking: ‘What is that permanent solution to my migraine problem? What is she talking about it? I tried everything out there, went through all procedures and went to every specialist there is. I was told, there is nothing that can be done.’ I know you did! As a nurse, I looked in the medical world for a while too. And then I just had to turn my back and learn the secrets to pain relief and health somewhere else. And I did. It took me about 20 years to fully understand it so I could share it with you. Not only did I combine all that I learned into a predictable proven strategy to relieve headaches and migraines in a safe way,… …BUT I added the one thing every other approach I tried was missing… SUPPORT AND ACCOUNTABILITY: To stay on track and find the other side to relieve. This has been a game-changer for many. People who struggled for years are now pain-free and live their lives the way they want to without settling and compromising. Ready for the same? If so, I invite you to meet me for a free consultation. You’re going to discover that: You can indeed live a migraine-free life and heal yourself. You just need these things: To be crystal clear and certain about who you want to be and how you want to show up in your life. AND a predictable proven strategy to relieve headaches and migraines in a safe way WITH excellent support. That’s the magic you’ve been looking for. Is it easy? It is simple. If you’re my ideal client, you already know it takes YOU’RE DOING and getting into action. You understand “simple” and “easy” are not the same thing. And you know I won’t guarantee you anything. BUT, if you do exactly what I show you to do, I guarantee you that you will successfully relieve your migraines painless and for good. All you have to do is bring your coachability, decisiveness, and resourcefulness. … and I bet you’ll see why I’m so certain when I say: You can have it any way you want it. Got to www. LuciaFranziska.com to book your FREE session with me. Talk soon, Lucia |
